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Judith Trust Obua's avatar

I think someone who wants to be romantically involved with you asking you what you bring to the table is redundant because if they don’t see it then why are they moving to you in the first place?

Perre's avatar

you're right, and that might be the more interesting problem. they're already moving toward you and still asking. which means they don't fully trust what drew them in the first place. the question exposes everyone, including the person doing the asking.